“Here’s an idea, how about the way to try and get guys to notice you, is to stop trying. To let go, of the idea of trying. What I mean is you don’t have to let go of what you want, or let go of the thing that you wanna have. But this feeling of trying, this feeling of what can I do to change myself to get people to notice me is kind of a tough one, because the you kind of start to get obsessed with the external, then you start to think about what other people want, from me, and how can I change to get what I want.”

“Here’s an idea, how about the way to try and get guys to notice you, is to stop trying. To let go, of the idea of trying. What I mean is you don’t have to let go of what you want, or let go of the thing that you wanna have. But this feeling of trying, this feeling of what can I do to change myself to get people to notice me is kind of a tough one, because the you kind of start to get obsessed with the external, then you start to think about what other people want, from me, and how can I change to get what I want.”