Today I realized two things: 1. I have very large lips. (My also labia shows, it should be noted). Rendering my vagina “invalid” as i am an “outsider” to the bubble of “whats considered pretty” according the standards of the porn industry…
2. I also realized: I don’t care.
No, seriously. I WAS worried about this. It took seeing photo’s of other woman (http://lovelargelabia.tumblr.com/) to realize how little these worries actually mattered. I SO don’t care anymore. Why should I? Why should I let my the most private aspect of who I am be reduced and criticized by the unrealistic images of the porn industry, and even sites like the vagina institute dot com that actually compares and rates woman’s vulva on an “attractive scale” (or some form of rating system or critique) based on some weird cultural study, or whatever. (HA!). No. I won’t let you impose your FUCKING standards on my vagina! Go away.
But really, any of who you are having doubts, feel free to recognize your ignorance. And google “The Great Wall Of Vagina” It’s totally non-explicit. Just an artists collective plasterings of many a womans vulva. It’s great shit.
And. You may realize that not all vaginas are the same, nor should they be treated as such. YOU have control over YOUR body. Don’t let someone else dictate how you THINK you should look.
P.S. Not to insult anyone, but what’s all the hype about tiny, infantile looking vagina’s anyway? Who cares, man?